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I can't bring myself to be that fake. I guess I'm stuck being authentic, which no one wants. 😖
Interesting. When I first heard this guy he struck me as a non-creepy, ethical PUA.
They want good looks
Having a cat will teach you a LOT about a woman's psychology. For example: cats love attention, but only on their terms. But you can manipulate the situation on your terms by simply ignoring them.
Women – much like cats – cannot tolerate being ignored when they think you have something of value to offer.
Cultivate a life of value. Failing that, cultivate the illusion of value.
I would like a breakdown with some examples of Orion explaining some too far gone women. Thats not to say men dont have responsibility but we learn it the hard way and women largely are rewarded for their poor choices in not being held accountable through monkey branching. With this in mind there have to be red flags not that she has some issues, but that shes putting on an act, shes shallow, she hypocritical to the core, etc. I would love to hear his perspective and some specifoc hypotheticals because they are generally hinted at but not specifically identified.
Water seeks its own level. Be the type of person the person you want, would want to be with.
"id be awash in…"
Inner monologue
Cant say pussy…
Need a softer word…
"…optionality…yes yes thatll do"
action is the key. prove it! there is no failure onlu feedback
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What if your outcome is mainly determined by your phenotypes caused by genetics
There's a reason why most women don't want to date or marry each other, because they'll begin to hate one another, even if there was a pill that would make them attracted to their own gender permanently they would not do it, for example when women go out to eat they split the bill, whereas with a man they EXPECT a man to pay or theres no second date.
It also teaches you how shallow and fickel they are. Virtually none of them are worth a serious investment. Recreational use only.
can anyone point me to the full interview?
As someone who's gotten back into the dating market as a behavioral scientist, I've noticed these things:
Simply opening up your mouth and making relatively interesting dialog will set you apart from 95% of men. Generally, women assume your efforts match your value. The better you are at seduction and closing, the higher the yield.
Just about all of the best PUA look more or less average in looks and stature. You’re probably not as ugly as you think you are.
Status is usually the most attractive thing a woman sees in a man. With status there is respect which is harder and harder to come by for men. Women don’t feel an intimate connection with men they don’t respect. For at least short term mating strategy, dominate in a hobby or social circle she’s in like salsa dancing. Women will flock.
The more women other women see you with, the more they will assume your value in mate selection. This is called prequalification. The only way to do this is to display status even if it is having a way with words like a PUA.
Everything you can do to make yourself stand out positively from other men increases your chances with her. Muscularity, hygiene, grooming, competence, simply being fun and having hobbies, having multiple trades, charisma and attention grabbing, etc.
Building comfort with a woman automatically increases her attraction towards you no matter how attracted she is initially towards you unless you’re some known celebrity with status. It takes some men a year to build the amount of comfort of what a skilled PUA can do in a few sentences.
Some women are just more attracted to certain types of men no matter the slight attractiveness deficit. A woman who’s an 8 might find a male 6 who is culturally appealing to her to be just as attractive as herself.
The more attractive the woman, the harder it will be for you to get her to form a genuine connection. This is of course generally speaking.
Figure out what attraction level you are with most women from a scale of 1 to 10. Usually men who are 7 and above are going to get the lion's share of women’s attention. If you’re a 5 or 6, this can help you understand why women give you a chance, but aren’t usually that crazy about you without a system of seduction. See Hoe_math on Youtube.
Social media and dating apps have made women feel entitled to the most attractive men. In order for you to compete, you’ll have to look like the top 10% on social media and dating apps. Alternatively, you can just meet women in person which is more terrifying but more efficient for most average men.
It all depends on what you're looking for and how you are as a person. And I don't mean personality. I mean how good looking as well as how successful and how charming you are will determine the type of person that you will be able to hook up with based on The environment that you hang out at.
What’s peacocking?
Being attractive works, the rest is bs, like all red pill